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Staying safe if you live with an abuser
In an emergency call 999, or get a friend or a neighbor to do so.If you feel a problem is about to explode, try to go to a room where there's another exit.

NEVER go to a bathroom (you could run the risk of being drowned) or a kitchen (you could be burnt or harmed with a knife) or any other place with objects that may be used as weapons.

If there are weapons in the house inform the police. Practice how to leave the house safelyKeep a bag hidden with clothes, medicine and anything else you and your children may needKeep copies of important documents (Immigration papers, birth certificates, marriage certificates, court orders) Ask trusted neighbors to call the police if they hear screaming from your houseKeep a list of important telephone numbers – police, LAWRS, friendsInform yourself of your rightsTalk to your children and give them a key word so they understand you must leave. Decide where to go, even if you don't think you'll leaveTrust your instinct in a dangerous situation. If it's too dangerous, try to calm your partner down whilst you think of your next stepAlways remember that abuse is a crime